Realize that it’s the little (seemingly insignificant) words that often make the greatest impact, for the good or the bad.
Words matter.
A few weeks ago, I wrote about fire lookout towers … and how it is important to be on the “lookout” relationally. Today’s background photo was taken from Park Butte lookout tower. This fire lookout tower has a commanding view of Mt. Baker.
Sometimes, when we thoughtlessly speak careless words, it might not seem like much to us. But to the one with whom we are in relationship, those small words might be as big as the mountain in today’s photo! Those “small” words might be absolutely crushing!
Careless words … thoughtlessly spoken … hurt deeply! Especially when they are spoken by someone with whom we are in close relationship. The pain sticks with us … for years!
Before we know it, a “mountain” barrier has developed in the relationship. We are no longer able to “connect with” the person whom we are in relationship with … because a “mountain” of pain and hurt stands in the way.
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue …” – Proverbs 18:21
“Reckless words pierce like a sword …” – Proverbs 12:18
But by the same token, “small” words of love, encouragement, and affirmation have every bit as much power for the good! They, likewise, can “build up” a relationship so that it becomes something of magnificent beauty … like the breathtaking beauty of Mt. Baker!
“The heart of the righteous weighs its answers …” – Proverbs 15:28
“How good is a timely word!” – Proverbs 15:23
“The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life …” – Proverbs 15:4
Guard your words … and speak life!
